Did you ever run into one of those situations where your significant other has either gotten into a scene or they have been drug into one and you find that you do not agree with them at all? That is so hard. I've had that happen a few times recently and I really don't handle it well.
I tend to be the type who will just say and do what I feel is right without too much thought to it. But in those times, you have 2 choices; either back up your sweetie and feel like a liar or disagree in public and embarrass them. Those choices suck!
Then when you are alone and you get to voice your opinion privately, you can't win either. Either you are wrong and they can't understand how you couldn't see things their way or you are right and they want to know why you weren't honest, didn't speak up, yada yada yada.... Any way you slice it, their feelings are hurt.
Maybe the only safe thing to do is to disagree and keep it to yourself. Then blog about it later. Assuming they don't read your blog, of course.
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